Secrets to dating older men
If you don’t make it an issue, chances are it won’t be.If you really like her, just go with the flow and be yourself, regardless of whether “yourself” is a silly, dorky, immature 57-year old or a wise and mature 24.
They are interesting men, sophisticated or incredibly intellectual or artistic.
Dull men can't pull this off without a sense of extravagance which only attracts a certain type of girl.
I thought with this guy, it definitely wouldn’t be. He was exciting in a totally different way than the boys I’d dated before.
Looking back, I definitely put myself in what could have been a scary situation.
He was really popular in the club scene, so a ton of people knew him (or at least knew of him)–but a lot of people worried about me being with him, and not just because they didn’t like me dating an older guy! He’d been married and divorced already, was a recovering alcoholic, was known to do drugs, and it was rumored he’d slept with just about every girl in town.
I knew all of this, and the truth is, that’s why I wanted to date him.
These days the idea of young women dating older – often significantly older - men barely raises an eyebrow. A long stints in an asylum for the criminally insane? But just because she hasn’t shared a similar experience, don't feel that she wouldn't relate to your life or your issues; open up and you never know what wisdom she could offer.
But just because you were her age once, it doesn’t mean that dating a young woman is always plain sailing. Whatever the age gap, here’s how to date a younger women successfully. Youth might imply less experience, but it doesn’t mean a lack of empathy, nous and emotional intelligence.
It seems like more men are open to relationships with significantly younger woman than the other way round.
Generally I find that men old enough to be my dad have no problem chatting me up, while I really wouldn't consider it.
I saw him at a dance club one night and thought he was super beautiful.