If you don’t make it an issue, chances are it won’t be.If you really like her, just go with the flow and be yourself, regardless of whether “yourself” is a silly, dorky, immature 57-year old or a wise and mature 24.

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They are interesting men, sophisticated or incredibly intellectual or artistic.

Dull men can't pull this off without a sense of extravagance which only attracts a certain type of girl.

I thought with this guy, it definitely wouldn’t be. He was exciting in a totally different way than the boys I’d dated before.

Looking back, I definitely put myself in what could have been a scary situation.

He was really popular in the club scene, so a ton of people knew him (or at least knew of him)–but a lot of people worried about me being with him, and not just because they didn’t like me dating an older guy! He’d been married and divorced already, was a recovering alcoholic, was known to do drugs, and it was rumored he’d slept with just about every girl in town.

I knew all of this, and the truth is, that’s why I wanted to date him.

These days the idea of young women dating older – often significantly older - men barely raises an eyebrow. A long stints in an asylum for the criminally insane? But just because she hasn’t shared a similar experience, don't feel that she wouldn't relate to your life or your issues; open up and you never know what wisdom she could offer.

But just because you were her age once, it doesn’t mean that dating a young woman is always plain sailing. Whatever the age gap, here’s how to date a younger women successfully. Youth might imply less experience, but it doesn’t mean a lack of empathy, nous and emotional intelligence.

It seems like more men are open to relationships with significantly younger woman than the other way round.

Generally I find that men old enough to be my dad have no problem chatting me up, while I really wouldn't consider it.

I saw him at a dance club one night and thought he was super beautiful.